Mwangi series Part 2... RAPE This guy… He almost had his way. The one thing most of us are pants down against is rape. It doesn’t matter what the victim did or whatever the relationship they had with the assaulter. Rape is rape and rape should be treated with the seriousness it deserves! This includes the psychological rape where someone initially didn’t want to have sex with you but you persuaded them into it. I don’t mean when your lover teases, no, when she just wants you to work for the yes… I mean when someone says no and no means no! It was Friday but unlike most Fridays… Mwangi wasn’t around so when I went to the club I couldn’t find him. His friend was, however, and he came towards me. We started talking and this is when I found out Mwangi was in town and though he would be back, he wasn’t due until around midnight. We took time to dance a little when he asked me to take him to his place. This guy…Please note that I thought we were going to pick something – or somethin...
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Mwangi series Part 1 BOOTY CALLS A booty call is when you call someone or you get called basically for the booty 😁😁😁 . This is mostly common within the single people who may or may not have connected with a partner for just sex. Call it friends with benefits or whatever, but you basically don’t want to have a relationship with the person, it’s just the sex. I met this guy while I was dancing. He had pretty good moves on the floor and although I knew him by name, I had never talked to him. After a few moves, we left the dance floor and sat on a table to make banter which mainly involved me complementing him for his website developing business and his then awesome blog. That is when I asked him if he would be willing to be a friends with benefits. (I shot my shot...) He said it would actually work well for him since he didn’t believe in love but aaarh fu! Who was he kidding? He loved someone who I soon discovered wasn’t his to keep. He told me that such friendships always w...
DEFLOWERED GIFTS... The issue about a woman’s virginity is one that has been addressed with utmost severity within our society. Older women married in the 1990s going back were not treated too kindly when found out to not have been virgins on their wedding night. In some cultures, the issue was so serious that the marriage was to be consummated in front of elders who would check the sheets searching for specks of blood, lack of which would cause the woman to be sent back home with a kiondo on her head (there was a jembe in the kiondo). The dowry was called back on account of the ‘daughter’s shame’ What really is virginity then? Virginity is mostly thought of as a state where someone has not had vaginal penetrative sex. I say penetrative vaginal sex because true to it, nobody is keen to ask whether one has had oral or anal sex for that matter. Once I heard someone say she had performed all there is to sexual activity apart from vaginal sex. She still insisted she was ...
FISTULA A fistula is defined as an abnormal connection of two body cavities (such as the rectum and the vagina), or as the connection of a body cavity to the skin (such as the rectum to the skin). One way a fistula may form is from an abscess—a pocket of pus in the body. The abscess may be constantly filling with body fluids such as stool or urine, which prevents healing. Eventually, it breaks through to the skin, another body cavity, or an organ, creating a fistula. Types Fistulas often occur in the area around the genitals and anus (known as the perineum). The four types of fistulas are: Enterocutaneous : This type of fistula is from the intestine to the skin. An enterocutaneous fistula may be a complication of surgery. It can be described as a passageway that progresses from the intestine to the surgery site and then to the skin. Enteroenteric or Enterocolic : This is a fistula that involves the large or small intestines. Enterovaginal : This is a fistula that goes to t...
Millions of people around the world live with diabetes or know someone living with diabetes. The majority have type 2 diabetes, but an important minority have type 1 diabetes (~5%). Contrary to popular belief, type 1 diabetes is not a childhood disease. It occurs at every age, in people of every race, and of every shape and size. In fact, there are more adults who have type 1 diabetes than children, although it was previously known as juvenile diabetes. For people with diabetes, low blood sugar (hypoglycemia) occurs when there's too much insulin and not enough sugar (glucose) in the blood. Hypoglycemia is defined as blood sugar below 70 milligrams per deciliter (mg/dL), or 3.9 millimoles per liter (mmol/L). Several factors can cause hypoglycemia in people with diabetes, including taking too much insulin or other diabetes medications, skipping a meal, or exercising harder than usual. Pay attention to early warning signs, so you can treat low blood sugar promp...
I have realized that challenges come to you when you are at the climax of a really great situation. It brings you down to a point where you feel it's time to give up and leave. The point where everything becomes so pointless. You cry but no tears are shed because you can't let the world see what life has been like to you. You have to be strong, you have to keep smiling because it reassures those around you that you are doing fine. Little do they know what is going on in your head. They can't decipher the thoughts going round in your mind, and even if they did, none can help you. But in the end you have to rise up from the ashes like a phoenix does and fly high. Be the eagle you are meant to be. Be the great person you dream of. That is the point when you put all behind and walk on. Pick yourself up. Put the pieces together and stitch your wounds because no one is going to understand you. No one will ever feel what you feel however much you try to explain to them. But...